Emotionally focused therapy / EFT-A13-3
Enactment Preparation — Clinician dialogue
Guide a collaborative conversation about enactment preparation while checking fit and participant choice.
15 minutes · Clinician script · Mental health professionals
Fictional example: Alex wants to explain a small hurt but is unsure about saying it aloud.
Use within your training and assessment of readiness. Speaking directly requires readiness, safety assessment, and choice.
Invite and obtain permission
Offer: "Would it be useful to explore enactment preparation using an ordinary or fictional example? We can adapt it, observe, or stop." Ask what the person wants from the conversation.
Elicit before teaching
Ask: "How does this show up, if at all, in your own words?" Offer this idea tentatively: Speaking directly requires readiness, safety assessment, and choice. Ask what fits and what does not.
Guide the task
With an EFT-trained clinician, define a brief message, a receiving task, a stop cue, and an observing alternative before any direct exchange. Ask for permission before giving an example. Use this fictional illustration if useful: Alex wants to explain a small hurt but is unsure about saying it aloud.
Reflect and check accuracy
Reflect only what was offered: "I heard you describe ___. What did I miss?" Ask: What must be in place before this exchange is invited? Avoid assigning motives or interpreting silence as agreement.
Respond to a mismatch
If the person rejects the frame, say: "Thank you for correcting it. What would be more useful?" Return to their language or choose a different approach.
Close with agency
Ask which observation, question, or support request the person wants to keep. Confirm a manageable ending and appropriate follow-up; do not turn a tentative possibility into a homework obligation.
Prompts for this resource
- Readiness, permission, cultural context, and access needs to check:
- What must be in place before this exchange is invited?
- What would tell me to adapt, stop, or seek supervision?
Conceptual background
What is EFT? — International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy
Background on the approach only. Original exercises and wording are by More Than Therapy with AI assistance; the source does not validate or endorse these materials.