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Trust in Small Moments — Practice worksheet

Choose a small agreement, a realistic limit, and a check-in about its impact.

15 minutes · Worksheet · Adults; supported use as appropriate

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Fictional example: Alex and Sam agree to clarify weekend plans by a mutually chosen time.

Use an ordinary or fictional example, with a clinician when appropriate. Trust may be supported by observable consistency rather than promises alone.

1. Choose a workable example

Use the fictional example below or an ordinary situation of your choosing. Keep identifying details out of shared copies.

2. Try the practice

Choose a small agreement, a realistic limit, and a check-in about its impact.

3. Compare possibilities

Generate at least two interpretations or options. Mark what you know, what you are guessing, and what remains outside your control.

4. Decide together

How will you learn whether this agreement helps? Choose one small action, a support request, or no action. Review the fit with your clinician when relevant.

Prompts for this resource

  1. My chosen or fictional situation, and what I know about it:
  2. My response to the practice task above:
  3. How will you learn whether this agreement helps?
  4. An optional next step, support, adaptation, or reason to stop:

Conceptual background

What is EFT? — International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy

Background on the approach only. Original exercises and wording are by More Than Therapy with AI assistance; the source does not validate or endorse these materials.

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