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Gestalt work / GST-A13-1

Dialogue and Difference — Concept brief

Understand the idea behind dialogue and difference and consider whether it fits your context.

8 minutes · Handout · Adults; supported use as appropriate

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Fictional example: Rae likes planning in advance; a friend prefers flexibility.

Use an ordinary or fictional example, with a clinician when appropriate. Different perspectives can coexist in real contact.

The idea

Different perspectives can coexist in real contact.

An ordinary example

Rae likes planning in advance; a friend prefers flexibility.

What this can look like

Practice describing a differing preference and asking about the other person's experience without seeking agreement.

Check the fit

What helps curiosity survive a difference? You may disagree with the framing, use fiction, or decide that this approach is not useful today.

A useful distinction

Awareness is information, not a demand to explain every sensation or change immediately.

Prompts for this resource

  1. What part of this idea makes sense to me?
  2. What helps curiosity survive a difference?

Conceptual background

Gestalt Therapy: An Introduction — Gary Yontef

Background on the approach only. Original exercises and wording are by More Than Therapy with AI assistance; the source does not validate or endorse these materials.

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