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Choice at the Contact Point — Clinician dialogue

Guide a collaborative conversation about choice at the contact point while checking fit and participant choice.

15 minutes · Clinician script · Mental health professionals

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Fictional example: Rae cannot change a workplace policy but can ask for its written explanation.

Use within your training and assessment of readiness. A small choice may exist without eliminating constraint.

Invite and obtain permission

Offer: "Would it be useful to explore choice at the contact point using an ordinary or fictional example? We can adapt it, observe, or stop." Ask what the person wants from the conversation.

Elicit before teaching

Ask: "How does this show up, if at all, in your own words?" Offer this idea tentatively: A small choice may exist without eliminating constraint. Ask what fits and what does not.

Guide the task

Identify one adjustable moment in an interaction and list what remains outside your control. Ask for permission before giving an example. Use this fictional illustration if useful: Rae cannot change a workplace policy but can ask for its written explanation.

Reflect and check accuracy

Reflect only what was offered: "I heard you describe ___. What did I miss?" Ask: Where is a realistic choice, and where is support or advocacy needed? Avoid assigning motives or interpreting silence as agreement.

Respond to a mismatch

If the person rejects the frame, say: "Thank you for correcting it. What would be more useful?" Return to their language or choose a different approach.

Close with agency

Ask which observation, question, or support request the person wants to keep. Confirm a manageable ending and appropriate follow-up; do not turn a tentative possibility into a homework obligation.

Prompts for this resource

  1. Readiness, permission, cultural context, and access needs to check:
  2. Where is a realistic choice, and where is support or advocacy needed?
  3. What would tell me to adapt, stop, or seek supervision?

Conceptual background

Gestalt Therapy: An Introduction — Gary Yontef

Background on the approach only. Original exercises and wording are by More Than Therapy with AI assistance; the source does not validate or endorse these materials.

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