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Anxiety & Stress / GRP028

Control and Influence Circles

Place concerns into direct action, influence, and uncertainty circles.

30 minutes / 3-12 participants / Adults and teens 13+ with appropriate facilitation

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UNDERSTAND THE IDEA

Uncertainty, alarm, and avoidance are different parts of anxiety.

A sense of alarm can arise before a threat is fully understood. Avoidance may bring immediate relief while also limiting opportunities to learn that a situation is manageable. These exercises begin with low-intensity examples and practical support; they are not exposure protocols.

Facilitation lens: Ask whether the person needs information, protection, an accommodation, or a manageable practice opportunity before choosing a coping strategy.

Explore the conceptual background · Broad background, not validation of this original exercise.

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Materials

Paper or a printable handout, Pens or an accessible writing alternative, Optional blank cards or simple drawing materials

Fictional example

A work schedule may change next month.

Invite and agree - 3 minutes

Name the purpose and the right to pass, observe, write, or use fiction. Agree that people share only their own experiences and do not promise absolute group confidentiality.

Introduce the example - 3 minutes

A work schedule may change next month. Ask what is known and what is still a guess.

Practice: Mapping - 17 minutes

Place concerns into direct action, influence, and uncertainty circles. Create a simple diagram or table. Label relationships, gaps, or choices; participants decide which connections fit.

Reflect together - 4 minutes

Where is one practical action possible? Ask what fit, what did not fit, and what would make the exercise more accessible. Do not interpret another person's response.

Choose a next step - 3 minutes

Invite one optional action, support request, or question to carry forward. Passing is a valid closing response. Confirm how to seek appropriate support outside the activity.

Adaptations and fit

Read the example aloud or offer written instructions. Allow typing, pointing, drawing, listening, and a support person where appropriate. Avoid mandatory movement, touch, or eye contact.

Use ordinary concerns. Do not prescribe exposure or insist on internal or breathing-focused exercises.

Conceptual reading and review status

Original AI-assisted educational draft; independent clinical review pending. Sources inform general facilitation principles; they do not validate or endorse this original plan.