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A Longer-Term Recovery Map — Session activity

Facilitate a structured practice of a longer-term recovery map with preparation, reflection, and an agreed closing.

30 minutes · Session guide · Mental health professionals

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Fictional example: Lee wants a plan that leaves the relationship outcome open.

Use within your training and assessment of readiness. Recovery may involve ongoing meaning-making, boundaries, and support.

0–5 min | Agree on purpose and fit

Explain the educational scope. Ask what would be useful, check readiness and access needs, and establish choices to observe, adapt, or pass. Use an ordinary example; do not solicit trauma narratives.

5–10 min | Orient with an example

Recovery may involve ongoing meaning-making, boundaries, and support. Fictional example: Lee wants a plan that leaves the relationship outcome open. Ask what is observed and what remains uncertain.

10–20 min | Practice and compare

Create a flexible map of personal care, relational work if chosen, practical tasks, and review points without setting a forgiveness deadline. Offer quiet individual work, a supported conversation, or an observing role. Compare two possible responses without evaluating people as right or wrong.

20–25 min | Reflect on meaning

What should remain open rather than decided for the sake of completing the plan? Ask what fit, what did not fit, and how culture, power, disability access, or external conditions affect the options.

25–30 min | Integrate and close

Invite one optional next step or support request. Orient to the current setting, allow an unfinished question to remain unfinished, and agree how to revisit it. End early or adapt if activation increases.

Adaptations

For a group, use fiction and no compulsory round-robin disclosure. For remote use, allow off-camera reflection and private notes. For brief use, keep one example and one question while retaining opening and closing choices.

Prompts for this resource

  1. What outcome would make this practice useful?
  2. What should remain open rather than decided for the sake of completing the plan?
  3. What adaptation or follow-up is needed?

Conceptual background

Integrative Model of Affair Recovery — American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy

Background on the approach only. Original exercises and wording are by More Than Therapy with AI assistance; the source does not validate or endorse these materials.

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