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Frequency and Function Are Different — Session activity

Facilitate a structured practice of frequency and function are different with preparation, reflection, and an agreed closing.

30 minutes · Session guide · Mental health professionals

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Fictional example: Noah notices viewing is sometimes recreation and sometimes avoidance of a difficult task.

Use within your training and assessment of readiness. Frequency alone does not explain impairment, choice, or meaning.

0–5 min | Agree on purpose and fit

Explain the educational scope. Ask what would be useful, check readiness and access needs, and establish choices to observe, adapt, or pass. Use an ordinary example; do not solicit trauma narratives.

5–10 min | Orient with an example

Frequency alone does not explain impairment, choice, or meaning. Fictional example: Noah notices viewing is sometimes recreation and sometimes avoidance of a difficult task. Ask what is observed and what remains uncertain.

10–20 min | Practice and compare

Map when use occurs, what function it serves, and any concrete effects without assigning an addiction score. Offer quiet individual work, a supported conversation, or an observing role. Compare two possible responses without evaluating people as right or wrong.

20–25 min | Reflect on meaning

Which pattern matters because of its impact rather than a number alone? Ask what fit, what did not fit, and how culture, power, disability access, or external conditions affect the options.

25–30 min | Integrate and close

Invite one optional next step or support request. Orient to the current setting, allow an unfinished question to remain unfinished, and agree how to revisit it. End early or adapt if activation increases.

Adaptations

For a group, use fiction and no compulsory round-robin disclosure. For remote use, allow off-camera reflection and private notes. For brief use, keep one example and one question while retaining opening and closing choices.

Prompts for this resource

  1. What outcome would make this practice useful?
  2. Which pattern matters because of its impact rather than a number alone?
  3. What adaptation or follow-up is needed?

Conceptual background

AASECT Position on Sex Addiction — American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists

Background on the approach only. Original exercises and wording are by More Than Therapy with AI assistance; the source does not validate or endorse these materials.

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