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A Nonjudgmental Pattern Map — Concept brief

Understand the idea behind a nonjudgmental pattern map and consider whether it fits your context.

8 minutes · Handout · Adults; supported use as appropriate

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Fictional example: Noah notices a repeated pattern after an isolating workday.

Use an ordinary or fictional example, with a clinician when appropriate. Patterns can be explored through context without explicit content details.

The idea

Patterns can be explored through context without explicit content details.

An ordinary example

Noah notices a repeated pattern after an isolating workday.

What this can look like

Map an ordinary sequence of situation, feeling, urge, action, and consequence using neutral language.

Check the fit

Where might a practical support change the sequence? You may disagree with the framing, use fiction, or decide that this approach is not useful today.

A useful distinction

A chosen change goal and a clinical diagnosis are different questions. Address functioning, control, consent, values, and distress without assuming that sexual expression itself is pathological.

Prompts for this resource

  1. What part of this idea makes sense to me?
  2. Where might a practical support change the sequence?

Conceptual background

AASECT Position on Sex Addiction — American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists

Background on the approach only. Original exercises and wording are by More Than Therapy with AI assistance; the source does not validate or endorse these materials.

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