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Digital Friction by Consent — Concept brief

Understand the idea behind digital friction by consent and consider whether it fits your context.

8 minutes · Handout · Adults; supported use as appropriate

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Fictional example: Noah chooses to charge a device outside the bedroom.

Use an ordinary or fictional example, with a clinician when appropriate. Device settings can support a chosen plan but do not replace care or consent.

The idea

Device settings can support a chosen plan but do not replace care or consent.

An ordinary example

Noah chooses to charge a device outside the bedroom.

What this can look like

Compare optional notification changes, device placement, or self-chosen access limits; exclude another person's coercive monitoring.

Check the fit

Which adjustment supports your choice without creating a surveillance arrangement? You may disagree with the framing, use fiction, or decide that this approach is not useful today.

A useful distinction

A chosen change goal and a clinical diagnosis are different questions. Address functioning, control, consent, values, and distress without assuming that sexual expression itself is pathological.

Prompts for this resource

  1. What part of this idea makes sense to me?
  2. Which adjustment supports your choice without creating a surveillance arrangement?

Conceptual background

AASECT Position on Sex Addiction — American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists

Background on the approach only. Original exercises and wording are by More Than Therapy with AI assistance; the source does not validate or endorse these materials.

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