Pornography use and recovery / PPU-A11-4
Sexuality without Shame — Session activity
Facilitate a structured practice of sexuality without shame with preparation, reflection, and an agreed closing.
30 minutes · Session guide · Mental health professionals
Fictional example: Noah wants help distinguishing realistic sexual expectations from media portrayals.
Use within your training and assessment of readiness. Consensual sexuality can be discussed respectfully while addressing unwanted patterns.
0–5 min | Agree on purpose and fit
Explain the educational scope. Ask what would be useful, check readiness and access needs, and establish choices to observe, adapt, or pass. Use an ordinary example; do not solicit trauma narratives.
5–10 min | Orient with an example
Consensual sexuality can be discussed respectfully while addressing unwanted patterns. Fictional example: Noah wants help distinguishing realistic sexual expectations from media portrayals. Ask what is observed and what remains uncertain.
10–20 min | Practice and compare
List questions about sexual wellbeing, expectations, consent, or relationships for a sexuality-informed clinician without describing explicit material. Offer quiet individual work, a supported conversation, or an observing role. Compare two possible responses without evaluating people as right or wrong.
20–25 min | Reflect on meaning
What would a respectful clinical conversation make room for? Ask what fit, what did not fit, and how culture, power, disability access, or external conditions affect the options.
25–30 min | Integrate and close
Invite one optional next step or support request. Orient to the current setting, allow an unfinished question to remain unfinished, and agree how to revisit it. End early or adapt if activation increases.
Adaptations
For a group, use fiction and no compulsory round-robin disclosure. For remote use, allow off-camera reflection and private notes. For brief use, keep one example and one question while retaining opening and closing choices.
Prompts for this resource
- What outcome would make this practice useful?
- What would a respectful clinical conversation make room for?
- What adaptation or follow-up is needed?
Conceptual background
AASECT Position on Sex Addiction — American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
Background on the approach only. Original exercises and wording are by More Than Therapy with AI assistance; the source does not validate or endorse these materials.