Pornography use and recovery / PPU-A12-2
Relationship Agreements about Media — Practice worksheet
Privately identify preferences, boundaries, and questions; joint discussion requires safety and voluntary participation.
15 minutes · Worksheet · Adults; supported use as appropriate
Fictional example: Noah and a partner have never clearly discussed expectations about sexual media.
Use an ordinary or fictional example, with a clinician when appropriate. Partners can clarify agreements without assuming identical preferences.
1. Choose a workable example
Use the fictional example below or an ordinary situation of your choosing. Keep identifying details out of shared copies.
2. Try the practice
Privately identify preferences, boundaries, and questions; joint discussion requires safety and voluntary participation.
3. Compare possibilities
Generate at least two interpretations or options. Mark what you know, what you are guessing, and what remains outside your control.
4. Decide together
What needs clarification before a broken agreement is assumed? Choose one small action, a support request, or no action. Review the fit with your clinician when relevant.
Prompts for this resource
- My chosen or fictional situation, and what I know about it:
- My response to the practice task above:
- What needs clarification before a broken agreement is assumed?
- An optional next step, support, adaptation, or reason to stop:
Conceptual background
AASECT Position on Sex Addiction — American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
Background on the approach only. Original exercises and wording are by More Than Therapy with AI assistance; the source does not validate or endorse these materials.