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Refusal with an Exit — Concept brief

Understand the idea behind refusal with an exit and consider whether it fits your context.

8 minutes · Handout · Adults; supported use as appropriate

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Fictional example: Jordan is invited to an event where returning to use feels more likely.

Use an ordinary or fictional example, with a clinician when appropriate. A refusal works best when it includes a realistic way to leave or get support.

The idea

A refusal works best when it includes a realistic way to leave or get support.

An ordinary example

Jordan is invited to an event where returning to use feels more likely.

What this can look like

Rehearse a brief decline, an exit line, and an alternative plan for a low-stakes invitation.

Check the fit

What makes leaving feasible rather than just a sentence on paper? You may disagree with the framing, use fiction, or decide that this approach is not useful today.

A useful distinction

A return to use is information for reassessing care and support, not a verdict on personal worth.

Prompts for this resource

  1. What part of this idea makes sense to me?
  2. What makes leaving feasible rather than just a sentence on paper?

Conceptual background

Substance Use Disorders — National Institutes of Health

Background on the approach only. Original exercises and wording are by More Than Therapy with AI assistance; the source does not validate or endorse these materials.

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