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Repairing a Support Misstep — Cooperative Planning Workshop

Draft an acknowledgment after giving unwanted advice and ask how to respond differently.

40 minutes · 3–12 people · Adults with trained group facilitation

Facilitator PDF · Fillable participant PDF · Open activity / add to session

UNDERSTAND THE IDEA

Belonging works best when the fit is chosen.

Peer and community support can offer practical knowledge, companionship, and hope. Different groups, cultures, identities, and recovery pathways may fit different people. One disappointing experience does not settle whether all community support will be useful.

Facilitation lens: Explore what makes a setting welcoming, what privacy limits apply, and what an alternative could be. Avoid making attendance a test of commitment.

Explore the conceptual background · Broad background, not validation of this original exercise.

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Fictional example

A supporter repeatedly checks on a member who wanted space.

Open with choice — 3 minutes

Explain the purpose, privacy limits, and the option to observe, use fiction, adapt, or pass. Check access needs and group readiness; do not promise absolute confidentiality.

Meet the fictional case — 4 minutes

A supporter repeatedly checks on a member who wanted space. Ask what is known, what is assumed, and what the person in the case wants.

Practice: Planning workshop — 26 minutes

Draft an acknowledgment after giving unwanted advice and ask how to respond differently. In pairs or small groups, create two possible plans for the fictional case. Compare access, effort, likely tradeoffs, and consent. Choose one reversible trial with a backup and a review point; allow an observing role.

Reflect and compare — 4 minutes

What can be owned without asking for reassurance? Ask what fits, what does not, and what external conditions or supports affect the options. No personal disclosure is required.

Close and integrate — 3 minutes

Invite an optional observation, support request, or small next step. Passing is welcome. Agree how to revisit questions and seek appropriate help outside the exercise.

Practice output

A feasible plan with a support, a backup, and a review question.

Scope and adaptation

Use ordinary or fictional examples, not graphic substance-use stories or cue exposure. No competitive abstinence scoring, forced disclosure, or required pathway. These plans do not manage intoxication, overdose, withdrawal, or medication changes; follow individualized care and appropriate medical assessment.

Offer reading aloud, typing, drawing, pointing, or observation. Avoid mandatory movement, eye contact, touch, and body focus.

Original AI-assisted educational draft; independent clinical review pending.

Conceptual background

References inform broad principles and do not validate or endorse this original plan.