Intended outcome: the client names a current loss related need, chooses a coping or support option, and leaves with a manageable plan. Use this structure flexibly; telling the loss story or completing a worksheet is optional.
Minutes 0 to 15
0 to 5: Check current wellbeing, safety, and the client’s preference for talking, practical planning, or quiet reflection. 5 to 15: Use GRF01 to identify the loss and secondary changes that matter today. Follow their language and avoid assuming a particular emotional response.
Minutes 15 to 40
15 to 30: Choose GRF02 for intense reminders, GRF04 for a meaningful date, or GRF05 for practical burdens. Complete only the relevant parts. 30 to 40: Practice one support request or coping choice. Ask whether the plan respects cultural practices, privacy, energy, and the client’s relationships.
Minutes 40 to 50
40 to 45: Notice the client’s current level of activation and offer a pause or orientation to the room if desired. 45 to 50: Ask what they are taking from the session and what they need next. Agree on one optional practice and a check in plan. Address any referral or safety needs before ending.
Reflection prompts
Use these questions in conversation, on paper, or in the downloaded PDF. You may adapt or skip a prompt.
Current need, selected support action, and follow up plan
Facilitator notes and adaptation
Do not force emotional expression or equate completing a task with grief progress. Assess severe impairment and risk. Seek appropriate consultation or referral for traumatic bereavement, prolonged grief, or concerns beyond competence.
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